Each of you think about your daily patterns and answer these questions. Then share your answers with each other.
1. John Gottman in Principles for Making Marriage Work defines a “Love Map” as all of the relevant information about our partner’s life that allows us to be intimately familiar with his or her world. What can I do to better understand my partner’s “Love Map”?
2. What current behaviors are preventing me from sharing in my partner’s life experiences?
3. What am I willing to do with this new understanding that will allow me to share more fully in my partner’s life experiences?
